IF YOU ARE STILL LOST AT AGE 25, DO THIS AND DISCOVER YOURSELF

 There is no doubt that a person's twenties are often some of the most difficult and confused years of their life. 

Most times, things seem to take a stand still by the age of 25 and we have no earthly idea what we are supposed to do with ourselves. If you have found yourself in this state, don't worry, its okay to feel lost at 25. Here are 6 steps you should take to take control of your life in your 20s.

First, don't let where you are now or the job you do now define you: Sometimes in our twenties, we have to do jobs that are not what we set out to do with our lives just to make ends meet. This does not mean you have ended badly, it is part of the process. 

When you are off from work, either during the week or at weekend, try to explore other activities that you are passionate about no matter how small they may seem. As you engage in that which you are passionate about, it brings you closer little by little to the place of your destiny. 

Second, explore and exploit: As you are in your twenties, explore as much as you can. Expose yourself to many different ideas, cultures, friends and jobs. Keep exploring until you get that which resonates with you deeply. The moment you get it, commit to it, become highly focused to it and don't get distracted anymore. 

Third, try your best to let go off past failures. Whether its a job, relationship, school program or anything else that didn't go like you planned, try your best to let it go. Don't let your past define your future, always look ahead and just keep stepping forward. You have not lost it all. 25 is not old to figure out yourself. Many people become successful later in life. 

Fourth, don't let anyone define who you are: It is very easy to get caught up in relationships with friends, family and partners during our twenties that end up making us dependent on others for happiness. Do your best not to let this happen. Having a strong sense of self is important for helping you not feel lost in life, you will be stronger when you are aways being yourself. 

Fifth, reach out to others: At your twenties, it is sometimes necessary to reach out to others who are older than you. Only few people had their entire lives figured out at 25, so take advice from a variety of people and learn from their experiences.